Married Blog Reader Needs Your Opinion on The Issues of Masturbati*n

Tweet9ja, Goodest  morning. I have a question, I settled down last October and My wife is a final year student of UNIZIk Awka while I stay in Lagos. She comes home once in 2 week or sometimes three weeks to spend time with me. I always pay for her flight from Asaba to Lagos so as to make the transit smooth.

I just dropped her off this morning at the air port as she has to be in school latest 10am. This weekend didnt go down well. As a matter of fact, We had our first major fight on saturday. She came home friday night and started acting funny. She wouldnt talk to me until saturday morning. Her beef was why there were some Porn DVDs in our room. I tried to explain that I watch them. She asked who i watch it with. I told her that i watch alone and masturbate with her photo so I dont cheat on her. Immediatly I said that, all hell was let lose, She called me a dirty, he goat, pervert and a lot of things I cant mention here. 

tweet9ja, that was how my weekend turned into a moody affair up-till when she left this morning.

People say masturbation or self pleasure is bad or a sin, but where is it in our holy books because i know the holy books (Holy Quran and Holy Bible specifically) is against adultery and fornication I see no mention of the former. Is it better to cheat on your spouse or partner than help yourself out?